"This book made me realize that my 'romantic devotion' was actually codependency. Riso doesn't romanticize suffering for love; he calls it what it is: a slow suicide of the self." "The chapter on 'love agreements' was a game-changer. He explains how to love without losing your identity." "Hard to read because it hits too close to home. You will feel exposed and uncomfortable—that's a good sign."
: A key point could be the concept of self-love. Riso might argue that only when we love and accept ourselves can we truly love others without losing ourselves in the process. "This book made me realize that my 'romantic
Walter Riso is renowned for his straightforward approach to relationships, emphasizing self-love, setting boundaries, and understanding the dynamics of toxic relationships. His work encourages individuals to prioritize their well-being and recognize when they're in a harmful relationship. You will feel exposed and uncomfortable—that's a good sign